Cock Rings restrict blood from leaving the penis, causing a longer and firmer hard-on. Cock rings come in many materials—rubber, silicone, leather, cloth, brass, stainless steel, and silver–but if you are just beginning to play with cock rings, pick one that is adjustable and has either snaps or Velcro fasteners that are easy to remove. Novices who want to use a ring rather than a strap are better off with a stretchy ring.

Cock rings commonly come as strips that fasten or in rings made from a stretchable material or metal. Some are designed with vibrators or projections designed to stimulate the clit or balls.

First Time Using a Cock Ring

• . If you are using a ring rather than a fastening model, lube your cock and balls so that the cock ring will slide on more easily. A semi-erect (but not fully hard) cock makes it easier to put a ring on.
• If you are using a fastening cock ring, fasten the strip behind your balls and across the top of your cock (against your belly).
• If you are using a stretchy cock ring, stretch it open with a couple of fingers, insert your cock and carefully move your balls through it until it is resting around your cock and balls against your body.
• If you are using a metal cock ring (or any other material that has no give), pull the loose scrotum through first, then each testicle and then finally push your cock through the ring.
• Now stimulate the cock until it gets hard and enjoy your play, whether solo or with a partner.

Choosing a Cock Ring Size

Velcro and snap-fastened cock rings will always fit you right. Silicone rings stretch enough to fit even the biggest cock. To take a measurement for a rigid cock ring, cut a ¼” strip of paper off the top of a piece of loose leaf. Wrap it around your cock and mark where the ends meet. Divide the length of the measurement by 3 to arrive at the right ring size (most men fit a ring between 1 ¾” and 2”).

If your cock ring is too tight, you can experience discolouration, numbness, and extreme pain. The right sized cock ring increases the size of your erection by only a small margin. If your cock is noticeably swollen, take the ring off immediately (this is why it’s a good idea for first-timers to use fastening or stretchy cock rings). If you’ve made the error of using a metal cock ring that is too small and you can’t get it off, even after applying ice to shrink your erection, get to the ER immediately. Yes, the ER staff may laugh about it later, but not to your face.

Can a Cock Ring Cause Damage?

Yes—if it is left on too long. It’s a good idea to take your cock ring off after about 20 minutes. If your penis starts to feel cold or goes numb, take it off immediately. Do NOT fall asleep with your cock ring on, because even if you are soft now, you experience erections in your sleep. If your ring keeps you erect for too long, the blood in your penis can coagulate and new blood can’t get in. This is very painful and can even cause permanent damage. If you experience this, get medical help at once.

Cleaning Your Cock Ring

Clean your cock ring according to the instructions for the material it is made from. Silicone, for example, can be immersed in warm water and washed with soap. You can give metal rings the same treatment, or even boil them. Leather and fabric rings can usually be wiped down with warm, soapy water.