1. Prepare

Pick a couple of songs you find sexy and love dancing to. A mix of fast and slow beats is good, to allow for different moods. Pick your outfit; sexy panties and bra, a garter belt and roll up stockings, a skirt and silky blouse that come off fairly easily, and the highest heels you can dance in. If you really want to go all out, you can buy and apply stick-on nipple decorations and a feather boa. Go for hot pink or deep red lipstick and apply some to your nipples, too. Use some body shimmer and/or baby oil. You’ll both appreciate the effect.

2. Atmosphere

The whole point of a strip tease is to display your body, not hide it. So leave some lights on. Put some coloured lights in directional lamps and create a spotlit ‘stage’ area to dance in. Fragrant candles will also enhance the mood, although don’t put them in line to cause a blaze as you toss your feather boa or scarves around!

3. Body Language

Keep your eyes on your audience the whole time. And never let him touch you. You can touch him anywhere, but he’s following Vegas rules—eyes only with his hands gripping his chair seat. Touch yourself in all the places he wants to touch you but isn’t allowed to. Imagine how you would touch yourself if you were a hesitant virgin or be a wild and wanton woman of experience…

4. Props

A Scarf or feather boa is your penis substitute. You’re going to touch it the same way you would play with him—lightly, firmly, running it over your body, between your thighs, shimmying over your breasts and more. Wrap it around eyes as a blindfold or bring it around his neck to pull him close for an almost kiss or better view (or tease his cock with it, if he’s being a good boy).

5. Take it off (almost)

Remove your blouse first. Make it a tease, unbuttoning to reveal a bit of breast, letting the fabric slip back over your shoulders (try shrugging them) and then remove the arms but keep holding the top over your breasts. Turn and give him a bum shimmy and then around to the front again and let one hand slowly release your blouse so that it slides to the floor. You can kick it out of the way but you cannot pick it up and put it on a hanger—keep the housework for your French Maid outfit!

Now, show him your back and give him a sexy over-the-shoulder look. Arch your back to stick out your bum and slowly unzip your skirt. Then pull it down over your hips in one motion and step out of it. Make sure you’ve got both feet out of it before you resume dancing—feeling like a klutz rarely enhances your sexual mood.

Next come the shoes. Mules are best, pumps are okay, but anything with a strap is going to be a problem. Struggling with unbuckling a strap just isn’t sexy. You want to be able to step out of your shoes with a seductive sashay. A few more dance moves on your toes and it’s time to peel off your stockings. Do it slowly and drape them over his face and then his cock. Get rid of your garter belt quickly—they don’t look all that nice once the stockings are gone.

6. The Full Monty

Now you are down to your bra and panties. Dance and play with yourself. Caress your nipples. Lift your breasts and squeeze them. Pop them out of your bra and shake and shimmy them in front of his face. Remember, he’s still not allowed to touch you! Looking intently at him, shrug off your bra straps with teasing slowness. Now turn around and give him a wicked look over the shoulder and unhook your bra. But, just like with the blouse, hold it over your breasts. Face him again and let the bra drop while keeping your breasts covered with one arm. Dance a little, giving him a peek-a-boo show. Remove your arm and start stroking your breasts, arch your back, and play with them.

Now for your panties. Put your hands inside your panties. Caress yourself. Turn around and fondle your buttocks. Then put your hands inside the side-straps and lift them away your skin, giving him a side view. Now show him your backside again, bend over with one leg in front of you, toe pointed, and pull your panties down. Shimmy to the music as you get them down to your knees. It’s almost impossible to step out of tiny panties elegantly, so do it slowly and one foot at a time. Turn and face him with a hand over your pussy area. Play with yourself as you dance until the music is almost at an end and you can drop onto his lap and take advantage of all that charged-up sex energy you are both feeling.