A
Anus
The opening of the rectum. AKA bumhole, a-hole, backdoor.
Analingus
Licking the anus. AKA rim job, salad tossing.
Anal beads
consist of multiple spheres or balls attached together in series which are continuously inserted through the anus into the rectum and then removed with varying speeds depending on the effect desired.
Anal intercourse
Introducing fingers, tongues, toys or penis into the anus. AKA sodomy, anal
Anaphrodisia
Absence or diminution of sexual desire. AKA asexual, turned off.
Androgyny
Having the physical structure or desire of both sexes. Androgyny is a combined mental and physical orientation toward the sex opposite from which that person is declared be legally.
Aphrodisiac
A food, drink, drug which when ingested is supposed to increase the sexual appetite. IE Spanish Fly, Horny Goat Weed, Oysters.
Areola
The brownish or pinkish area of flesh surrounding the nipple.
Auto-eroticism
Any self-induced sexual pleasure. AKA masturbation.
B
Bareback
Sex without contraceptives such as condom or diaphragm.
Bartholin’s Gland
Two glands situated on each of the labia minora, near the vaginal opening. It’s these glands which secrete lubrication upon stimulation, making intercourse easier.
BDSM
is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics.
Bi-lingual
A person willing to perform oral intercourse to both sexes.
Bi-sexual
A person who is sexually attracted to both sexes. AKA Switch hitter, Ambisexual.
Blow Job
The act of performing oral sex on a male partner. AKA Suck off, Oral, Fellatio, Head.
Blow up dolls
usually made from plastic materials life size females or males used in masturbation to achieve a life-like sexual experience.
Bondage
1) Complete domination of a person through sexual attraction and practice. 2) The practice of sexual domination of a sado-masochistic quality including -but not limited to- restraints, humiliation, punishment, torture, servitude.
Bottom
To be on the receiving end of anal sex.
Branch vibrators
consist of both a clitoral stimulator and an insert able phallus shaped penetrator.
Breasts
The mammae; the protuberance from the chest formed by these glands in the female and one of the principal secondary sex zones. AKA Bee stings, boobs, jugs, bust, knockers.
Butt plugs
A butt plug is a sex toy designed to be inserted in the anus for sexual pleasure.
C
Cervix
The opening to the uterus at the far end of the vaginal canal.
Circumcision
Surgical removal of the foreskin of the man’s penis.
Climax
1) orgasm; the height of sexual sensation that is experienced as the final point of pleasure in sexual intercourse. 2) Refers to ejaculation of the male.
Clitoral Stimulation
Direct manipulation or rubbing of the clitoris manually, penile contact or with an inanimate object such as a vibrator, dong or other toy.
Clitorial pumps
a pleasure device used to enlarge the clitoris to achieve a stronger sensation.
Clitoris
the principal organ of sexual sensation in the female. It’s shaped like a small peak and located just above the vaginal entrance, beneath the labia minora. Like the penis, the clitoris enlarges when stimulated. AKA Button, dot, clit, man in a boat.
Cock ring
is a ring that can be placed around a man’s penis at the base, used to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue to aid in maintaining an erection for a longer period of time.
Corona
The ridge of skin which forms the base of the penis and separates the head from the shaft. AKA Flange, knot.
Cunnilingus
Oral sex performed on a female. The term literally means “Vulva Tongue” from Latin. AKA Head, Go down, Eat out.
D
Detumescence
The immediate reduction in erection of the penis following ejaculation.
Diaphragm
A diaphragm is a shallow, dome-shaped rubber disk with a flexible rim that fits within the vagina and covers the cervix so sperm cannot reach the uterus.
Dildo
An object shaped like an erect penis used for sexual stimulation
Double ended Dildos
used by two people to penetrate one using each end of the dildo
Douche
is a product use to inject a stream of water into the body in order to clean area.
Drag Queen/Drag King
The wearing of clothing of the opposite sex, a female or male impersonator.
E
Ejaculation
The discharged of semen through the urethra of the penis. It usually determines the moment of orgasm in the male. AKA Come/cum, shoot.
Erection
The penis in a state of sexual exacerbation, caused by a rush of blood into the vessels and tissues of the organ, coupled with a valve action which prevents its escape back through the circulatory system. AKA Wood, hard, at attention.
Erogenous zone
An area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may result in the production of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm.
Exhibitionist
Someone who likes to display their body in the nude, in public or before a group. The exhibitionist is to the voyeur what the masochist is to the sadist.
F
Flagellation
Sexual satisfaction from being whipped or whipping someone.
Flaccid
The penis in its natural state. AKA Limp, Soft.
Fetish
Sexual devotion to a particular object, part of the body, inanimate objects or certain actions. Eg: Underwear, rubber, breasts, statues, feet, balloon popping, smoking.
Fallopian Tubes
The ducts or canals which conduct the ova from the ovaries to the uterus.
Foreskin
The fold of skin which covers the glans penis of all males at birth.
Frenulum Preputii Penis
The small cord at the underside of the foreskin which connects to the glans penis.
G
Gang Bang
A party or orgy in which two or more people take turns having intercourse with a select person.
Glans Clitoris
The head of the clitoris.
Glans Penis
The head of the penis.
Glass
A dildo is a sex toy, often explicitly phallic in appearance, intended for bodily penetration during masturbation or sex
Golden Shower
A method of gratification of a sexual desire attained by urinating on your partner or being urinated on.
The Gräfenberg Spot- the G-Spot
Defined as a bean-shaped area inside of the vagina located one to three inches up the front vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate. For some women, stimulating the area creates a more intense orgasm than clitoral stimulation.
H
Hedonism
A way of life in which one gratifies all sexual and sensual desires of the individual without moral restraint.
Hermaphrodite
A person born with both male and female genitals, although one set is almost always incompletely developed.
Hymen
The fold of membrane partly covering the orifice of the virgin vagina. It’s usually broken during the first act of intercourse. The hymen may also be broken during examination or an accident.
I
Impotence
Incapable of achieving an erection due to age, stress, depression, physical or mental issues.
Intercourse
The sexual joining of two (or more) partners in the act of copulation.
K
Kegel exercises
The Kegel exercises are a series of voluntary contractions of all the perineal muscles. Such movement is done in an effort to strengthen all the striated muscles in the perineum’s area. Kegel exercises have been prescribed to treat urinary incontinence in both men and women. The strengthened muscles can also help women achieve multiple and better controlled orgasms.
Kegel balls/ben wa balls/ duotone balls
can all be used by inserting into the vagina for pleasure or for pelvic exercise.
Kinky
‘Weird’, ‘bizarre’. Sometimes it is misjudged as sexually ‘abnormal’ or ‘perverse’ behavior. AKA: Un-vanilla, freaky.
L
Labia Majora
The large outer lips that mark the entrance to the vagina.
Labia Minora
The inner lips at the entrance to the vagina which are formed just below the labia majora. Sensitive to sexual stimulation they respond to excitation by swelling in much the same manner as the clitoris.
Latex/jelly/rubber
synthetic product made from milky fluid found in many plants. The latex of the rubber tree is the chief source of natural rubber.
Libido
Sexual need, hunger or appetite.
Lifelike(flesh) cyberskin
CyberSkin is the brand-name of a soft elastomer material that is intended to emulate the feel of human skin. It is made by the adult toy.
Ligation of the fallopian tubes
An operation performed on the female for the purpose of rendering her incapable of impregnation from copulation. AKA: having the tubes tied.
M
Mammary Glands
The breasts, which are capable of producing and secreting milk.
Masochism
Pleasure in being abused or dominated.
Masturbation
The practice of arriving at orgasm through manual manipulation or frictional contact with the genitalia. AKA: Beat off, Jerking off, One hand dance, DJ Squiggles, Flick the bean, Choke the chicken.
Masturbators
individual or dual lifelike body parts used by a male to stimulate a mouth, vagina, anus, feet or other body parts for penetration while masturbating.
Mini massagers / pocket rockets
small devices used to achieve clitoral stimulation and organism, can also be used to stimulate, balls, preninum, head of shaft, nipples or other pleasure zones. Can aid in massages as well.
Meatus
The small slit which forms the opening if the urethra at the head of the penis. Both urine and semen are discharged through this opening.
Menopause
The change of life in women, during which menstruation ceases and other mental and physical changes may occur.
Menstruation
Is the periodic shedding of the lining of the uterus, which carries out with it the unfertilized ovum. Menstrual blood flows from the uterus through the small opening in the cervix and passes out of the body through the vagina.
N
Nipple clamps
are a clamp used to stimulate the nipples by applying varying degrees of pressure
O
Orgasm
The end-pleasure of sexual activity. Most find it a heightened psychic and physical sensation. AKA: Climax, Get your rocks off, Pop, Get off.
Ovaries
The reproductive glands in the female, located within the pelvic cavity near the uterus. The ovaries produce the ovum or egg to be fertilized.
Ovum
The female egg of reproduction which is fertilized by the male semen during copulation, with results in impregnation.
P
Pubococcygeus Muscle or PC muscle
The pubococcygeus muscle or PC muscle is a hammock-like muscle, found in both sexes, that stretches from the pubic bone to the tail bone forming the floor of the pelvic cavity and supporting the pelvic organs. These are the muscles that are used during kegel exercises.
Pleasure swings
are speciality swings made for the use of two people having sex.
Perineum
The surface region at the base of the buttocks between the genitalia and the anus.
Penis thickeners/Extensions
are products used to aid in increasing of the penis size.
Penis pumps
penis enlargement device, used over a period of time with elongate the penis.
Polyamory
The practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.
Prostate
A gland within the male reproductive system that is located just below the bladder. The prostate is located 3-4 inches inside the rectum and behind the frontal wall (towards the belly button). The secretion of the prostate is a milky fluid that is discharged into the urethra at the time of the ejaculation of semen. When stimulated –or ‘milked’- it can cause heightened orgasm, full body orgasms and increase the amount of ejaculation. AKA: Walnut, P-Spot, Male G-spot.
R
Rectum
The chamber between the end of the intestinal tract and the anus.
S
Sadism
The tendency to derive pleasure, esp. sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.
Semen
A viscous whitish secretion of the male reproductive organs, containing spermatozoa and consisting of secretions of the testes, seminal vesicles, prostate, and bulbourethral glands. AKA: seminal fluid, spunk, come.
Sex games
are forms of standard board games but designed to increase desire and stimulate players to act out or play out sexual scenarios .
Skene’s Glands
Are glands located on the anterior wall of the vagina, around the lower end of the urethra. They drain into the urethra and near the urethral opening and may be near or a part of the G-Spot. These glands are surrounded with tissue (which includes the part of the clitoris) that reaches up inside the vagina and swells with blood during sexual arousal. It has been postulated that the Skene’s glands are the source of female ejaculation. AKA: the lesser vestibular glands, periurethral glands, skene glands, paraurethral glands, female prostate)
Silicone dildos
These are easier to clean and do not have the characteristic plastic aroma of PVC. Silicone holds body heat well, and is an excellent conductor of vibrations. Silicone is also a robust material (especially when compared to the cheap, unsafe jelly rubber that many dildos are made of) that can be sterilized by boiling.
Sterile
1) Descriptive of a condition in the male when he is unable to produce effective semen for the purpose of procreation. 2) A condition in the female when she cannot create effective and normal ovum to be fertilized.
Strap-ons
are devices that can be worn by a person who want to have a penis, they attach a dildo to the body, or can be worn to enlarge their penis in which they insert in into a larger hallow diddo.
T
Testicles
Testes are components of both the reproductive system and the endocrine system. The primary functions of the testes are to produce sperm (spermatogenesis) and to produce androgens, primarily testosterone.
V
Vibrator
A device used for massage or sexual stimulation.
Vulva
The vulva has many major and minor anatomical structures, including the labia majora, mons pubis, labia minora, clitoris, bulb of vestibule, vulval vestibule, greater and lesser vestibular glands, and the opening of the vagina.
W
Wireless/Wearable / hands free
vibrating devices that either use batteries or remotes