All kinds of people enjoy anal sex play, whether with toys, fingers, tongues, or penises. There are a lot of nerve endings around the anus that can make anal play feel great. The male prostrate gland—about 2 inches in–produces wonderful sensations when stimulated and can only be accessed through the anus. In women, the G-spot can also be stimulated during butt play.
Make sure that the sex toy you use for anal play has a base that prevents it from slipping into the rectum, as this occurrence may require a hospital visit to have the toy removed.
Anal Sex Toy Size
If you are just starting out, go with something small; maybe just the width of a finger. But make sure that the flared base is big enough to prevent it slipping inside. You can buy combination kits that have different shapes and sizes of anal toys. Experiment until you find the one that provides the most pleasure.
These are usually softly diamond-shaped with a smaller neck and a widely flared base that helps keep the plug from slipping inside the rectum. The middle bulge stimulates the G-Spot or prostrate and also helps keep the plug in place. The gradient of the tip is to facilitate entry. Butt plugs, or anal plugs, can be made from rigid or soft materials. Ideally, you should use a condom with one to prevent cross-infections, and for ease of cleaning.
These dildos are usually much thinner than the ones designed for vaginal use. They also have a flared base to prevent the dildo slipping inside the anus and becoming stuck. The flared base also make it easier to use it with a harness. Many couples enjoy strapping on an anal dildo and pleasuring the male partner’s butt. Anal dildos often come in the form of fused anal beads, giving stimulation to both the prostrate/ G-spot and the nerves around the sphincter muscle. Ideally, you should use a condom with one to prevent cross-infections, and for ease of cleaning.
Smooth beads are knotted on a string that has a ring on the end to pull them out. The beads are inserted into the anus (except for the ring) and are then pulled out while the penis or vagina is being stimulated. The contractions of the anal sphincter muscles can be enough to create a very strong orgasm. It is important to follow the cleaning and care instructions provided by the manufacturer.